You deserve help — and you’re not alone.
Free, confidential support for anyone facing abuse at home, or raising kids through a hard stretch. This page just points you to real organizations — it doesn’t collect anything about you.
First, a safety note — please read this
If the person hurting you can see this device, they may be able to tell you visited this page. If you can, use a device they have never touched and don’t control — a library or workplace computer, or a friend’s phone — before you keep reading or make a call.
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In immediate danger? Call 911. If you can’t speak, some areas let you text 911, or call a hotline below.
Talk to someone now — anywhere in the U.S.
24/7, free, confidential. You don’t have to know what to say.
- National Domestic Violence HotlineCall 1-800-799-7233 · or text START to 88788call or textSafety planning, support, and referrals to local help. Chat at thehotline.org · Español at espanol.thehotline.org · TTY 1-800-787-3224.
- 988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988call or textIf you’re in emotional crisis or thinking of suicide. Free, confidential, 24/7. Veterans press 1.
- National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN)Call 1-800-656-4673 · or text HOPE to 64673call or textSupport for survivors of sexual assault or abuse.
- StrongHearts Native HelplineCall or text 1-844-762-8483call or textBuilt for Native Americans and Alaska Natives — open to all.
- National Human Trafficking HotlineCall 1-888-373-7888 · or text 233733call or textHelp for anyone being controlled, coerced, or exploited.
- WomensLaw.orgFree legal information & email hotline at womenslaw.orgPlain-language legal info for every state (restraining orders, custody, immigration). Attorneys answer by email — not for emergencies.
Central New Jersey — local help
Free and confidential. If you’re not sure who to call, start with the statewide line — it connects you to your county.
- NJ Statewide Domestic Violence HotlineCall 1-800-572-723324/7Routes you to the domestic-violence program serving your county. Bilingual; accessible for deaf/hard-of-hearing.
- Women Aware — Middlesex CountyCall 732-249-4504 · toll-free 833-249-4504Shelter, counseling, and court advocacy — free and confidential.
- 180 Turning Lives Around — Monmouth CountyCall 1-888-843-9262Safe house, counseling, legal advocacy. Sexual-violence line: 732-264-7273.
- Safe+Sound Somerset — Somerset CountyCall or text 866-685-1122call or textCan’t speak safely? This line takes texts, 24/7.
- Younity (formerly Womanspace) — Mercer CountyCall 609-394-9000Shelter, housing, counseling, court advocacy. Deaf/hard-of-hearing text 609-619-1888.
- YWCA Union County — Union CountyCall 908-355-435724-hour hotline, shelter, counseling, and sexual-violence advocacy.
- SAFE in Hunterdon — Hunterdon CountyCall 908-788-4044A real advocate answers — never a machine. 200+ languages.
- NJ 211 — housing, food, bills, benefitsDial 211 · or text your ZIP to 898-211call or textFree help finding shelter, food pantries, rent/utility help, and childcare — 150+ languages.
- HomeFront NJ — family shelter (Mercer County)Call 609-989-9417 (weekdays)Emergency shelter, food, and diapers for families — serves single mothers. Weekends/after hours: dial 211.
- Legal Services of NJ — free legal helpCall 1-888-576-5529Free civil legal aid for restraining orders, custody, and support (income-eligible).
Orange County, New York — local help
Free and confidential. The statewide line reaches every county; Fearless! is your local Orange County agency.
- NYS Domestic & Sexual Violence HotlineCall 1-800-942-6906 · or text 844-997-2121call or textStatewide, 24/7, ~170 languages. Deaf/hard-of-hearing dial 711.
- Fearless! Hudson Valley (Orange County)Call 845-562-534024/7Your local domestic-violence agency — shelter, advocacy, and the Family Justice Center in Newburgh. Also serves Sullivan County.
- 211 Hudson Valley — housing, food, billsDial 211 · or text your ZIP to 898211call or textFree, confidential help finding shelter, food, rent/utility assistance, and childcare.
- Legal Services of the Hudson ValleyCall 1-877-574-8529Free civil legal help — orders of protection, custody, eviction defense (income-eligible). Goshen 845-495-4305 · New Windsor 845-569-9110.
- Orange County Social Services (DSS)Call 845-291-4000 · benefits 845-291-2002Emergency housing for eligible families, cash assistance, SNAP food help, heating help.
- Catholic Charities — NewburghCall 845-561-1665Free food pantry and family/emergency support — no town limit.
Is your phone or accounts being watched?
One thing our team knows well — this is the part where a security background actually helps.
Abuse today can run through technology: hidden tracking apps, location sharing left on, a shared cloud or phone plan, or an account the other person can still get into. If something feels off, a trusted advocate can help you make a plan — please don’t rip a tracking app off suddenly on your own, as that can alert the person at the most dangerous moment. For clear, survivor-first guidance, see techsafety.org (from the National Network to End Domestic Violence). The hotlines above can walk through it with you.